Rick's grandmother sent him a birthday card with a long message about how our estrangement from his parents is just killing his dad. That just talking about us makes him cry and have to change the subject. Hes sad, depressed, wah wah wah wah wah. Is it wrong that hearing that made my day? lol I'm sure shes overexaggerating, but the thought of Rick's dad being in any sort of pain just amuses me to no end. Is that bad? Maybe I need a spanking...
posted by Good Wife @ 7:00 PM
10 Comments:
Well, not knowing any of the backstory about your relationship with his parents it's hard to comment...but to me it seems a bit cruel to take joy in someone else's pain, no matter what the cause.
But like I said, I don't know the cause...
B.
You are evil and wicked. How dare you write such filth and wish such pain on others. The picture is appropriate. God have mercy on your sinful soul.
Happy Birthday Rick!
I'll just stay out of the in-law conversation. Oh, tell Zippy the sinnerboy to pound sand and quit reading this site if he doesn't like the content.
Isn't that prostitution, soliciting people to spank you? Why would you want anyone to be upset? This does sound wicked to me too.
You were wicked long before the chuckle. I don't know what happened, but I know you have a good heart. If you take some joy in his supposed pain, then you should just acknowledge that it is bot wicked and wrong and move on.
Too many people shy away from their darker sides. They still have them, just don't have the guts to admit it.
As I said, I had no idea what the root of the conflict was. How would that be considered "judging"? I think a lot of people have a very wide definition of what judging means.
Goodwife, now having an inkling of what it's all about, I apologize if I offended. But I do tend to agree with what the earlier poster said, that forgiving is what Jesus taught - and keeping that hatred in your heart takes up room that could be better used in other areas.
Sounds corny, but I've found it to be true.
(((hug)))
B.
Humm, Catch 22.
1. Happy Birthday Rick.
2. As a thought... What really matters is the life you
are living with Rick and the future you have with
him.
That should not really be influenced by anybody but
you and Rick. From this point onwards some peace
gesture could be made to reduce another person's
suffering, as much as you can. On the other foot
your feelings reflect the sub-consious truth that
you really know about, and the feelings of being
guilty arise from this 'truth' bumping into your
consious morals.
3. Make a peace offering and solve more than one
issue?
I hope this helps, BUT I am not a psychiatrist or a good speller.
Thanks for reading...
Happy B-day to Rick..... and many more. I see the religious nuts are back at it - I'm not gonna say nuffin'!
I say your reaction is normal and justifed. Been there, done that, someone stole the t-shirt.
There is the spanking thing again..... :)
Ha, maybe I'll finally get to post. Tried to comment on the worker's building your neighbor's deck peeing all over the place but I kept getting time outs. Good Wife, I think your blog is too successful. You said that I could always email you but due to a glitch in this computer, or did Microsoft change it, I can't get my hotmail to work in Mozilla. And don't even get me started on Internet Explorer and what a sorry piece of malware targeted crap it is. Anyhoo, no. No, you shouldn't feel guilty about secretly enjoying the pain your father-in-law might be experienceing. After the crazy, literally and figuratively, stuff he did to you as a kid you have every right not to want him in your life. If anyone needs to make the effort it's Ricky's dad. If he were an adult about the whole thing he'd accept the fact that the two of you are wounded by his actions and that the best he could ever do is get Ricky back in his life only at arm's distance. Forget about ever talking to you again.
Forgiving the guy is a decision you'll have to make. But forgiving him and wanting him in your life are two distinct things.
Hi, sorry to ask this very unrelated question and comment. We use the same blog template and I am trying to figure out how to add links to the side area of my blog. Can you point me in the right direction?
Also, I love your blog! I enjoy stopping by to see what you've added! When I get the link thing figured out, I would like to link to your blog.
Thanks!
BadGirl
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