Butt Ricky!!!
What exactly is it that is so appealling about anal sex to guys? Just curious. Is it because its tabboo? Because all the porn stars are doing it? Or is it really something thats so great that it worthy of constantly seeking? Funnily enough, I was the one who brought up anal sex to Rick a couple years ago. If my memory serves me, he said something along the lines of, "Thats just not something I think I could get into" as he made a bit of a surprised face that I had even brought up such a thing. I thought of that response Sunday night, as he lubed the tip of his dick with his spit before squeezing it into my ass. I normally prefer that he use a condom for that, because he gets me all hot and bothered to where I want him to fuck my pussy afterwards, but that night, I just let it slide. I was lying on my side and he just got up and wrapped his body around me, embracing me tightly as he slid his cock in and out of my backdoor. I felt warm and loved and safe. He breathed heavily in my ear, letting out little grunts and moans before tensing up and coming inside me. I felt every pulse and spasm of his dick letting go in me. It was nice, but left me wanting more.
Last night on Nip/Tuck, Sean's wife had a similar dilema. They had a round of morning sex, during which she hadn't come, so when Sean jumped in the shower, she finished the job. I think my tongue was bleeding from biting it so hard. I can't count how many times I've busted out my vibrator as Rick showered after a morning romp. I don't always have to orgasm to enjoy sex, but its nice to be at least thought of! Oh well.
There was a bit of talk of voyeurism on sexat26 today. A particular memory came flashing to mind from many years ago. Me and Rick had been together for about 6 months, so I guess I was about 18. We worked together at the time and had quite a few friends who also worked with us. We liked to have Motel 6 parties, which was basically just all of us renting a room and getting lots of booze and hanging out together. This worked well, as there weren't too many houses we could go to where their parents wouldn't mind us drinking. (funny how parents are lol) Anyway, there were two other couples there with us, along with two other male friends. We were in a room with two beds, and we snagged one bed, and Betty and Archie took the bed next to us and Eric and Donna took a blanket and pillows to the floor, leaving the two guys with no pillows or blankets, but I digress. I laid down in the bed because I was getting sleepy and Rick jumped in next to me, pulling the sheets over our heads and kissing me with gusto that only a drunk man can possess. There were a few whistles and comments, which seemed to egg Rick on. He pulled off his shirt and pants, throwing them on the floor, still under the sheets and starting pulling at my clothes. I was hesitant at first, the room was full of people for God's sake! But at the same time, that thought was very exciting to me. So I let Rick undress me, adding my clothes to the pile. Now everyone's attention was on us, the two guys were tugging at the bed linens and giving a play by play to the best of their knowledge. Eric turned off the lights, and I know Betty and Archie got into bed then to, also getting frisky under the covers. With the lights off, there was still enough moon light to make out everything that was happening. I heard the two other couples adding their clothes to the pile and felt very naughty. This was also the first time Rick went down on me, and my moans got quite a few giggles around the room. I peeked my eyes around the room, making out the figures that were fucking, and noticed that one of the guys was sitting in the corner of the room closest to us with his dick out in his hand, jerking off as he watched us. We were young and drunk and stupid, but it was a hot experience, that was a once in a lifetime kind of deal. The next morning, both my bra and thong underwear were missing. I know who took it, but acted clueless just the same.
Perhaps voyeurism is like anal sex in that it is a tabboo that while you know you aren't really supposed to do it, its exciting, it feels good and gets you off just the same.
posted by Good Wife @ 9:38 AM
6 Comments:
Ahh. The joys of twenty-something sex.
Be careful that you don't grow up to have kids and responsibilities and money worries. Otherwise you'll be blogging about the rat bastard neighbor who lets their cats roam the neighborhood. And we the world will be much sadder for it too.
Oh, and thanks for the good comment on my blog. I appreciated it.
I can't help but smirk at the sarcasm in that comment. :0) I do have a child, I do have responsibilities, and indeed, we do have money troubles at times. Goodness, we even have a few hoosier neighbors that let their cats AND dogs run loose, reeking havok on our lawn and being just plain 'ol pesky. lol I assure you, we share many of the same daily issues/problems. I just tend not to get into too many details of it on this particular blog. You are absolutely more than welcome for the comment on your blog. And thank you for commenting on mine! You sound like a terrific father. Keep up the good work!!
What is so appealing about anal sex?I wish I knew. I've always wanted to try it, but ever woman I've been with has objected. I guess the reason I'd like to try it is because it seems like it would be an incredible feeling. Very tight and warm. My wife said if I find a woman willing to take me anally she'd pay for the hotel, but so far even her friends who say they enjoy anal sex have turned me down.
I hope my previous comment didn't offend. It's just that I know of so few married couples with kids, obligations, houses, etc. you have a vigorous sex life.
As to the butt question, I don't know. Being taboo and dirty is a pretty good reason for why so many men and women want it.
Your post made me think of an artile on nerve.com. A woman convinced her man that she would allow him to have anal sex with her if he would do it to himself first. He bought a mold kit to make a replica of his member and did himself. Don't know if he did ever get his woman's back entrance for his efforts.
No, love, you most assuredly did not offend me. =0) I just find it amusing that people tend to automatically think that once you have children, your sex life turns sour or ends all together. Everyones opinions are more than welcome here!
What a funny article you referenced! Admittedly, the first time I experienced anal sex, it was an accident by my over eager husband. I was shocked and did not enjoy it at all! I told him many a time that I ought to shove a dildo up his ass so he knew just exactly what that felt like. Of course, that never happened, and its come to be an enjoyable experience for us both now.
There is so much talk about how euphoric prostate stimulation is, one would think men would be more eager to have their own bums explored. Hmmm.... Perhaps they are just more squeamish than women? We may never know. Unless, of course the gentlemen reading this would care to share their thoughts and opinions. I would just love to hear a man's take on this.
M.N., I would say that if Maria comes more easily with anal sex, then to go ahead and buy her a plug. Then pehaps she could use the plug while you penetrate her all the while stimulating her clitoris as well. Hmmm... Me thinks thats a fine idea... lol Just get it and say, "I thought we might be able to enjoy this together." Then leave it be so she can play with it alone if she chooses, and then come to you when she'd like to try it. Can't hurt. Worst she can say is no, right?
xoxo
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